Lorraine’s Events and Appearances

  • Tuesday, May 19, 2015, 6 p.m.
    My Journey as a Journalist
    A private talk for the Zonta Morristown Area Meeting
    The Cosy Cupboard, 4 Old Turnpike Road, Morris Township, NJ
    Directions at www.cosycupboardtearoom.com/contact.html

    Lorraine talks about what has changed, and what has endured, during her ongoing decades-long journey as a writer. The talk covers the early days in the hallowed halls of Fordham University and on the health desk at Family Circle Magazine in the 1980s and moves through the worlds of weekly and daily journalism, playwriting, literary journals, and books.

  • Saturday, June 6-7, 2015, 10 a.m.-5 p.m.
    Writing Family, Understanding Self
    A two-day memoir retreat for women and men
    Cuppa Pulp Writers’ Space, 119 Main Street, Suite 2, Nanuet, New York 10954
    $200 includes workshop and mini-reflexology sessions with the wonderful Elle Levenson ($150 early bird rate for those who sign up by May 1)
    (Lunches on your own at one of the many wonderful eateries in the neighborhood.)
    Register at www.cuppapulp.com/cilk119/event/lorraine-ash/

    Live too far to commute?

    These hotels are all within five minutes of Cuppa Pulp:

    NOTE: Nyack, New York, which has terrific restaurants and a local arts scene, is 10 minutes away.

    Questions? Contact Lorraine.

    Writing Family, Understanding Self

    Everybody comes from a family story and inherits a legacy of love, yes, but also truths, myths, damage, prejudices, passions, and strengths. In a great family memoir, the writer explores that whole tapestry, consciously plucking and weaving threads that both explain and define his or her identity. In the act of writing and shaping a story, the writer recognizes and makes decisions about the key moments and influences of his or her own history.

    Writers will learn to build their own stories in these sessions:

    On Saturday


    • Select imagery from pictures or memory to write the strongest opening scene
    • Find the question that rests at the center of their family experience


    • Explore the use of incident and consciousness shifts to motor a memoir along
    • Mine the tension between their family’s public image and private reality
    • Identify their story’s master insight

    On Sunday


    • Arrive at the resolution of their story, which is not necessarily redemption
    • Reference the imagery from the opening to choose a closing scene


    • Tie their story as much as possible into the larger cultural conversation

    What to bring:

    • Several family photographs that hold an emotional charge for you, even if you’re not sure why. For a look at one of my old photos, featuring my Uncle Primo, and my musings on it, visit the event page on Facebook.
  • Thursday, July 9, 2015, 7:00-8:45 p.m.
    Secrets of Writing the Family Memoir
    Montclair Write Group Free-For-All Writing Workshop Series
    Montclair Public Library, 50 South Fullerton Avenue, Montclair, NJ

    (For more about Montclair Write Group events, e-mail and ask to receive the weekly e-update.)

    In a great family memoir, the writer grows in self-awareness by examining his or her whole family story—public and private, past and present—and consciously embracing or rejecting different parts of the legacy. This mini-workshop is great for writers embarking on a memoir project or those who have a memoir under way and want to deepen aspects concerning a family member.

Previous appearances are listed on the Past Events and Appearances page.